It doesn’t. Flights, long dinners, hotel breakfast buffets, jet lag, two weeks in Hawaii, a trip to England where the scones are genuinely exceptional — and somewhere in all of that, you’re supposed to stay fit while traveling.

Diana had this problem for years. She’d start strong, something would come up, and the whole thing would fall apart. She’d tell herself she’d restart when things settled down. Things never settled down.

Then she built a system that didn’t care where she was.

Who Is Diana?

Diana is 62, a part-time consultant in accounting and finance who works from home. She and her husband love to travel and food is part of the experience for her. She looks forward to trying local spots, finding hidden gems, eating things you can only get in that place.

Before working with Born Fitness, she’d watched her parents struggle with the physical limitations that come with aging. She was starting to see the same patterns in her own generation. She didn’t want that future. She wanted to feel good, stay strong, keep doing the things she loved — for as long as possible.

When she came in, she had a straightforward goal: lose around 20 pounds and build habits that would actually last. What she got was something bigger than that.

The Real Goal Behind the Number

At her intake, Diana described her ideal outcome like this: 

“I would be more confident and eager to do new things. I would be more carefree and less worried about minor items. I would worry less about what other people think of me.”

The weight was the surface goal. Underneath it was something most of our clients share: they want to stop carrying the mental weight of feeling like they’re always behind and always starting over. 

She also came in with a healthy amount of self-awareness. Her biggest anticipated challenges? Losing motivation over time, giving in to instant gratification, and — this one matters — all-or-nothing thinking. Her words: “If I can’t do everything I should do today, why do anything at all.”

That awareness turned out to be a huge advantage.

Real Life Kept Happening (On Purpose)

Our nutrition approach was simple: ~1,700 calories a day, at least 100 grams of protein, flexible on carbs and fats. The goal was something Diana could run in the background of her actual life.

Within a few weeks, she was already adapting. She found shake recipes she liked. She figured out how to hit her protein target without obsessing over every gram. Within a month, she was writing things like this:

“So far, it’s so much easier than balancing macros or figuring out how to spend ‘points.’ The simplicity of the plan is working for me.”

Then the trips started.

First up: a group trip in late March, about six weeks in. She packed fruit and high-protein snacks. She focused on eggs, yogurt, and turkey at breakfast. The breakfast buffet had churros. She passed on them.

Why? Because she’d already decided that the churros weren’t worth it — not when there might be something better later.

The ‘Worth It’ Rule

When her coach asked how this trip had felt different from previous travel, Diana gave one of the clearest descriptions of a real mindset shift we’ve heard:

“I gave myself permission to try a special bakery or restaurant, but the tradeoff was that I held back on ‘not so special’ things like churros on the breakfast buffet to leave space for something special later. I think previously I would have eaten everything that looks good without thinking.”

That’s a complete framework in four sentences. Enjoy what’s genuinely special to a place or experience. Pass on what isn’t. Leave space for the good stuff. Stop eating on autopilot.

She kept refining it. By the time she got to Hawaii seven months later, she had it dialed in:

“I plan to reasonably enjoy the foods and drinks that are ‘special’ to the area — like a sunset mai tai, or a local restaurant. I just need to not get into stuff like bags of chips or muffins that aren’t ‘special.'”

And when she got back from Hawaii, something unexpected happened. After two weeks of eating more freely — mindfully, but more freely — she came home and found herself craving her usual foods. The healthy defaults had become the thing she actually wanted.

England came next. The scones with cream were, by her own admission, enjoyed three times. The crisps were not. As she put it: 

“I seem to be doing well with judging when eating something is ‘worth it.’ I love scones with cream, and I’ll admit I enjoyed that 3 times in England. But I was mostly able to pass on temptations that weren’t really ‘worth it’ like chips (I mean crisps!).”

The Numbers

Over 13 months, Diana went from 182 pounds to 142.3 pounds. Nearly 40 pounds, well past the 20-pound goal she came in with. We never had to adjust her calorie target once. While that won’t be the case for everyone, it shows the power of not changing things until you have to. 

The other number worth mentioning: when she started, she could do a pushup only from a high incline on a kitchen counter. She can now do a full unassisted pushup on the ground. At 62.

Diana’s workout plan is its own story, but the short version: we built travel workouts around whatever equipment she had available. Some trips, the focus was simply consistent movement — walking, staying active.  

But here’s what Diana said at the eight-month mark, and it’s the result that matters most:

“After 8 months, I feel like this is a lifestyle I can follow — which is what I was hoping for.”

How to Stay Fit While Traveling: What This Means for You

Diana’s story isn’t about perfect discipline or a special gift for consistency. It’s about three things that anyone can apply.

The first is that simplicity is the whole game. A plan you can actually run — without counting every gram, without a spreadsheet, without pausing your life — beats the perfect plan you can’t sustain. 

The second is that all-or-nothing thinking is the enemy. Instead of fighting it with willpower, she replaced it with a decision-making framework: is this worth it? That question short-circuits the all-or-nothing spiral before it starts. 

The third is that the goal underneath the goal is the one that actually keeps you going. Diana came in wanting to lose 20 pounds. She stayed because she was building something bigger: the confidence that she could handle anything life threw at her. 

Diana didn’t wait for things to slow down. She didn’t pause her life to get healthy. She built a system that worked inside her actual life — with the travel, the food she loves, the places she wants to go.

That’s what we help with at Born Fitness Coaching. Not a program you follow until life gets busy, but a system that holds up when it does.

If that’s what you’re looking for, apply for coaching here. 

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But research tells a different story: most people gain just 1–3 pounds between November and December.

In the grand scheme of things, it’s not a big deal. And anyone who’s followed us for a while knows we support eating and enjoying the holidays.

But there’s one important catch: Eating without guilt or shame during the holidays is much different from eating without boundaries for the entire holiday season.

The Real Numbers Behind Holiday Weight Gain

Here’s what makes that “1 to 3 pounds” stat so interesting — and why it deserves your attention.

On average, people gain 1 to 3 pounds per year from their twenties into their forties. Just look at this graph from the CDC.

If you look at the CDC data above, you’ll see that the weight gain isn’t usually a big jump. It’s a slow process of a couple of pounds per year.

It feels like a rounding error when you gain one pound in a year. But gaining one pound per year for 20 years can make you look and feel like a different person. 

Weight gain also appears to have a critical threshold where risks start to rise.

According to research from Harvard:

• Every 11 pounds gained is associated with a 30% higher risk of type 2 diabetes.
  
• A 14% higher risk of high blood pressure.
  
• A 6% higher risk of obesity-related cancers.
  
• And a 5% higher risk of premature death (among nonsmokers).
  

This isn’t about fear. It’s about clarity.

The easiest way to think about weight maintenance is this:
If you’re not steadily gaining weight, there’s far less urgency to lose it.

But to stop gaining weight over the long run, you need to understand when the weight tends to accumulate.

And that brings us to a critical window most people overlook.

The Critical Window: The 7 Weeks That Shape Your Year

If you look closely at the data, weight gain tends to happen at one specific time of year: the holidays.

You might go up a few pounds in one month and down a few in others, but for many people, the steady upward trend starts with November and December.

And the research backs this up:
NIH-funded studies show that the average one-pound holiday gain sticks, accumulates, and compounds over time.

Those small increases are often never fully lost, and they become the starting point for the next year’s increase.

So when you think of “holiday weight gain,” don’t picture a catastrophic 10-pound spike.
Picture something far more subtle — but far more persistent.

A one-pound carryover every year becomes a lifelong trend.

That’s why learning how to master the last seven weeks of the year can be so powerful. It’s not about restriction. It’s about preventing the start of a pattern that builds slowly and silently.

The good news?

It’s surprisingly easy to prevent — if you focus on the right habits.

How to Avoid the Holiday Weight Trap

Researchers have looked closely at how to prevent end-of-year weight gain. One study found that daily weigh-ins can help maintain weight through the holidays.

You can do that for two months. It’s doable for many and may be worth the short-term sacrifice if weight gain is a struggle during the holidays. 

But for many people, weighing yourself every day creates more stress — and extra stress is the last thing anyone needs in November and December.

The bigger issue isn’t the holidays themselves. It’s how people behave before and after them. The stress, the overthinking, the “I blew it, so why bother” spiral. That’s the real trap.

A simpler, more sustainable approach:

1. Enjoy the holidays themselves.

This part is non-negotiable.

Eat normally all year long.
Then on Thanksgiving and Christmas (or whichever holidays you celebrate), enjoy the food. Enjoy the people. Enjoy the moments.

You’re not trying to “win” these days. You’re trying to live them.

Because one day of indulgence won’t ruin your health —
just like one perfect workout won’t make you fit.

Holiday meals aren’t the problem. The meaning you attach to them is.

2. Stick to your normal rhythm on the other days.

This is where the magic happens.

All you need to do is maintain the behaviors that work during the other 10 months of the year:

• your usual breakfast
• your normal daily movement
• your go-to meals
• your standard sleep schedule
• your familiar routines
• your baseline habit structure

You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to be restrictive.
You don’t need to overhaul anything.

Just do the things you normally do — even if imperfectly.

Consistency beats intensity, especially during a chaotic season.

3. Avoid the “wait until January” trap.

This is the real danger zone.

The “I’ll start in January” mindset leads to behaviors in November and December that you don’t engage in any other time of the year — and those behaviors stack up fast.

This is why we used to run “Finish Strong” programs. The goal wasn’t restriction; it was accountability and consistency during the time of year when people need it most.

If you can maintain steady habits while still enjoying the key days, you win the season.

And when you win the season, you set yourself up to win the year.

The bottom line

You don’t need a special holiday diet or a strict challenge. You just need to stay grounded in the same habits that work the rest of the year.

Lean on what’s familiar.
Make small decisions that keep you feeling good.
Enjoy the days that matter.

Because if you can stay consistent during the final seven weeks of the year, you won’t just “survive” the holidays — you’ll set yourself up to win the entire year.

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But it wasn’t magic.

Sometimes it takes seeing yourself through a different lens to spark real change. 

For Matt, that moment came during a Bali vacation in May. Looking at his photos, he knew something had to shift. With his 40th birthday on the horizon, he set an ambitious goal: to get into the best shape of his life.

“I’ve always been the guy who was in the gym,” Matt reflects. “Lifting with no real purpose and doing cardio—I called that a day.” But those vacation photos revealed a truth he couldn’t ignore. Despite his consistent gym presence, the results weren’t matching his efforts.

What Sparked Matt’s Sustainable Fat Loss Journey

Matt’s fitness journey began long before his Bali revelation. 

At his heaviest in high school, he weighed nearly 300 pounds. By age 25, he’d lost 110 pounds and maintained a weight between 180-190 pounds. He even reached 168 pounds at one point, but as he describes it, he was “skinny fat”—the scale showed progress, but the mirror told a different story.

And despite his regular gym attendance, Matt’s workouts lacked structure. “I was your typical gym bro. Do Bis, Chest and Traps, and you’re good was my mindset.” 

The frustration with plateaued progress set the stage for a change in approach—one that would finally align his efforts with his goals. 

After interviewing several coaches, he found Born Fitness offered something different—a genuine investment in his success rather than treating him as just another client.

“I essentially did a Carrie Underwood and said, ‘Take the wheel!'” Matt recalls. 

How Coaching Helped Matt Break Through His Fat Loss Plateau

One of the first things Matt committed to was tracking his food intake using MyFitnessPal. 

We didn’t take a restrictive approach or eliminate entire food groups. Instead, the focus was on consistently hitting calorie and protein targets each day. That’s it. While you’ll likely need to adjust your calorie goals throughout the fat loss process, this simple approach helps you avoid overwhelm. 

And rather than aiming for perfection, we emphasized awareness. For Matt, that meant getting a better sense of portion sizes and being more intentional with meals.

What about his workouts? 

Matt came in with a classic “gym bro” approach—chest day, arm day, repeat. What he didn’t have was a structured, progressive plan.

We changed that.

Each 4-6 weeks, Matt followed a fresh training phase. Every plan was customized, but the consistent themes were:

• Full-body or upper lower split sessions 3–4x per week to train more muscle more often

• Progressive overload (increase weight, reps, or control over time)

• Conditioning finishers (sleds, circuits, intervals) to boost calorie burn without adding hours of cardio

This combination gave Matt the right amount of challenge without overtraining. He wasn’t left guessing what to do—and that structure freed him to focus on execution.

The result: For the first time, nutrition and training worked together, instead of against him. And that alignment unlocked progress he hadn’t seen in years.

As of June 2025, Matt’s results speak for themselves. 

His weight dropped from 192.1 pounds to 160.6 pounds. His waist measurement decreased from 100.3 cm to 79.4 cm. That’s more than 30 pounds of fat loss and a full wardrobe transformation.

His strength skyrocketed—going from zero to three unassisted pull-ups and increasing his incline bench weights by over 60%. 

But the numbers only tell part of Matt’s story. 

For the first time, he’s shopping in the small size section—a milestone he never imagined possible. “I don’t say small in a way that means that I lost muscle. My strength has never been higher, but now clothes are fitting in ways that I never dreamed of.”

From Quick Fixes to Lasting Results

His relationship with food transformed too. 

Instead of restrictive dieting, he learned to make smarter choices while still enjoying his favorites. “She doesn’t tell me to stop having Taco Bell,” Matt says about Coach Natalie, “but she would tell me ‘How can I make this healthier but still enjoy this?'” 

This balanced approach has made his new lifestyle sustainable and enjoyable rather than feeling like a temporary fix.

On his 40th birthday, Matt sent this message:

Matt’s transformation didn’t happen overnight—but it happened because he stopped winging it and found a plan that worked for him.

If you’re stuck trying to do this on your own and want the kind of structure and support Matt found, our coaching might be a fit for you.

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I was 18 years old and bitten by the nutrition bug. I didn’t just want to go deep on being healthier — I wanted to be perfect.

Back then, there weren’t apps. Just online tools that now feel laughable by today’s standards. But I used those tools, studied every label, and weighed out my oats like a scientist trying to cure a disease.

By lunch, I was stressed. By dinner, I was doubting whether the banana I added to my protein shake needed to be logged in grams or slices. By 9 p.m., I was elbow-deep in wondering what time I had to wake up to drink protein and prevent catabolism.

This might sound like satire, but it was my life. And I was convinced this was the necessary path to better health, more muscle, and less fat.

Precision. Perfection. Pressure.

But the harder I tried to get it all “right,” the more I lost sight of the point.

I wasn’t trying to become a food tracker or a bodybuilder where the margin of error is so slight that indistinguishable changes determine winners and losers.

I was trying to become healthier. Ok, maybe I was trying to look good naked too. But I had no delusions about my goals. I was delusional about how many details I had to master to achieve them.

Why You Feel Stuck in Your Fitness Journey

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your fitness journey — like you’re trying hard but not making progress — you’re not alone.

Most people I meet who want to improve their health don’t fail because they’re lazy or undisciplined. They fail because they’re overwhelmed.

I won’t completely slam biohacking. If it helps you, great. I’m a bottom-line guy: if something helps you, even if I don’t believe in it, it did its job.

But biohacking specializes in fear, anxiety, and overthinking. It makes you stress every decision and uses complication to feign effectiveness.

They’re majoring in the minor.

Even people who don’t identify as biohackers fall into the trap of over-optimizing:

• Should I do fasted cardio or eat first?
• Is creatine OK if I’m not trying to bulk?
• Do I need eight hours of sleep, or can I get by on seven?
• Is oat milk inflammatory?
• How many reps are optimal for hypertrophy?

These questions do matter. But they don’t matter yet.

When you’re feeling stuck in your fitness journey, it’s often because you’re chasing the perfect plan instead of building the habit of showing up.

We overthink because we care. We want to do things the right way, the best way, the most efficient way. But overthinking is a clever form of resistance. It feels like work. It feels like progress. But it’s usually procrastination in disguise.

When you’re carrying the weight of trying to optimize everything, you stop moving. You doubt your decisions. You hesitate. And in the hesitation, you lose momentum.

It’s like standing at the edge of a pool debating the best angle to dive in — while everyone else is already doing laps.

Simplify First. Optimize Later.

So, what should you focus on?

Ask yourself: What’s the big thing I’m actually trying to do?

If your goal is to get stronger, then the most important thing is to show up and train at least 2 to 3 times per week and add a little more weight each workout. It’s not about choosing between 4 sets of 8 or 5 sets of 5. It’s about progression. If you’re not lifting more, then something is wrong. Strength is easy to measure. You either see it or you don’t.

If your goal is fat loss, then consistency with meals, portion control, and managing hunger will move the needle more than wondering whether your post-workout snack should be whey or casein. Many diets work. But if your body isn’t changing — if your clothes aren’t fitting differently, or the scale isn’t moving — it’s time to simplify.

If your goal is better health, then drinking more water, walking daily, managing stress, connecting with friends, and getting decent sleep will serve you better than chasing the best probiotic strain or taking out a loan for a full-body scan.

Don’t confuse detail with depth.

Trade Perfection for Progress

Instead of chasing perfection, ask what’s getting in the way of consistency.

• Is it decision fatigue at night that leads to overeating?
• A workout that’s too complex, so you skip it altogether?
• A nutrition plan that requires spreadsheets and measuring cups?

Simplify. Shrink the task. Choose the next obvious step, and do that.

Because no amount of health knowledge matters if it doesn’t lead to consistent action.

Your health doesn’t require precision. It requires permission — permission to not have all the answers before you begin.

So stop trying to get it all right.

You don’t need to earn your progress through struggle. You earn it by showing up again tomorrow.

Let that be enough.

Final Thought: What to Do When You’re Stuck

If you’re feeling stuck in your fitness journey, ask yourself: What’s one thing I can do today that’s easier than what I’ve been trying?

Start there.

Then keep going. Keep checking in on your progress. Ask how it feels. Ask whether it’s sustainable and repeatable.

If you’re seeing changes — in how you feel, how you look, or how you show up — then you’re on the right track.

And there’s no need to overthink it.

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Janet lost ~19 pounds from August to January — without starving herself, obsessing over macros, or cutting out all the foods she loves.

What finally clicked for her might change how you approach fat loss too.

Janet’s Before: The All-or-Nothing Trap

The first rule of fat loss is you need to be in a caloric deficit. In non-science speak, you need to eat less than what you burn daily. 

But, right here is where we try to break from what you’ve been told. 

Like many people, Janet believed fat loss meant eating as little as possible — and that belief kept backfiring. She spent years trapped in the restrict-then-rebound cycle. She’d lose some weight, then gain it back the moment stress spiked or her willpower faded.

A caloric deficit doesn’t mean you have to starve or restrict all of your favorite foods. That is just the ticking time bomb of fat loss. The moment you make that decision, it’s inevitable that the plan will explode in your face. 

The Shift: A New Way to Look at Fat Loss

“We should be able to eat as much as we can and still lose weight.”

That one sentence flipped the script for Janet. Instead of asking “How little can I eat?” she started asking, “How much can I eat — while still making progress?”

That’s the hack. It might not seem like much, but it’s the “A-ha!” moment that changes things for most of our coaching clients. Then we help build habits, schedules, and foods you can enjoy around that life-changing fat loss approach. 

You see, much of dieting success comes down to how well you can figure out when you need to eat more and when you need to eat less. This is how you create a sustainable calorie deficit. 

While you can count macros to make this happen, to make this stick long term you’ll also need to shift your fat loss mindset, learn to tap into your hunger cues, and understand how to eat in a way that both helps you lose weight and feels sustainable.

From Starving to Sustainable: What Janet’s Fat Loss Plan Looked Like

Janet’s transformation didn’t require extreme dieting, hours of cardio, or giving up the foods she loved. Instead, it looked like this:

• Including favorite foods intentionally – Pizza night with the family wasn’t banned. She learned how to enjoy indulgences without guilt or spiraling. 
• Walking most days – Nothing fancy. Just consistent daily movement that helped support recovery, stress, and calorie burn. 
• Strength trained 3 times per week – Circuit based workouts that increased calorie burn by decreasing rest periods and increasing volume. Later on, Janet progressed to a strength-building focus.  
• Adjusted her intake based on life – When she was hungrier or more active, she ate more. On quieter days, she pulled back. No rigid rules, just awareness and flexibility. 

The result? A plan that matched her lifestyle, not one that required a complete overhaul.

Why Sustainable Fat Loss Worked for Janet

There was no “perfect” diet or magical workout.

What changed was Janet’s mindset around fat loss.

She shifted from trying to follow someone else’s strict plan… to learning how to build a structure that actually fit her reality. One she could repeat even when life got messy.

That’s the real “hack.” It’s not about doing more — it’s about doing what matters most consistently.

In Janet’s words: 

“Other programs want to tout the whole, ‘It’s a lifestyle change,’ when I think this is the only one I’ve done that actually is. And that’s why I feel the way I do like I’m not really on a program because everything I’m doing now is how I normally live. Part of me does wonder how this all happened because, dare I say, it’s been pretty easy.”

​​Key Takeaways for You

If you’re stuck in the same restrict-rebound cycle Janet was in, start here:

• Flip your mindset from “how little can I eat?” to “how much can I eat and still make progress?”
• Don’t cut everything you love. Sustainable fat loss includes satisfaction, not just sacrifice.
• Focus on patterns, not perfection. Janet wasn’t perfect — she was consistent.
• Build around your real life. Stress, busy weeks, travel — they’ll happen. Your plan should flex with you.

Want results that actually stick — like Janet’s?

Our 2:1 coaching isn’t about rules or restrictions. It’s about building something that works for your life. If you’re tired of starting over, let’s build your last fat loss plan together. Learn more about our 1:1 coaching here. 

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In reality, family or work commitments (or both) could mean it’s not the right fit for your life.

Take our client, Joshua. Burning the candle on both ends, he was exhausted during the work week and struggling to find time to workout. 

“The problem I’m having is working out during the work week. It’s either before or after work. It’s tough to solve. I’m tired on both ends of the work shift. I have a far drive to the office as well. Any pointers or thoughts on how to just become a consistent morning or evening workout person?”

— Joshua, coaching client

Instead of suggesting tips and tactics to become a more consistent morning workout person, we needed to ask a different question. 

Why not try a weekend-only workout plan?  

Can You Get Fit in 2 Days?

A recent study (link) found that people who exercised only on Saturdays and Sundays “had a lowered risk of mortality that was on par with those who worked out throughout the week” if total activity levels are similar.

In other words, think of your weekly activity levels like calories. As long as you’re hitting your weekly goal, you can probably spread them out however you’d like.

Performing two hard sessions over the weekend (and then plugging 1-2 light sessions during the week — if and when you have time) allows you to hit your training sessions when you have the most time and the most energy.

This approach can keep you healthy – and lower your risk of early death. 

The Weekend-Only Workout Template

I often use this template for our clients who travel for business, but it works just as well when your week is jam-packed. 

Here’s an example of how it would look: 

Monday: Off
Tuesday: Quick workout
Wednesday: Off
Thursday: Quick workout
Friday: Off
Saturday: Big workout
Sunday: Big workout

During the week, use workout snacks — quick 10-15 minute sessions — to move your body and stack small wins.

The key is to keep them low activation energy: easy to start, minimal equipment, and simple to finish. Think of them like the example below — a real workout pulled straight from Joshua’s plan.

Then, do an Upper/Lower split on the weekend and get after it with more exercises and sets.

Need an example? Here’s a simple Upper/Lower split you can try this weekend. Just grab a pair of dumbbells and get after it.

Saturday: Upper Body Focus

A1. Incline Barbell Bench Press — 3 sets of 5-7 reps
B1. 1-Arm Dumbbell Row — 3 sets of 10-12 reps per side
C1. Alternating Dumbbell Overhead Press — 3 sets of 6-8 reps per side
C2. Neutral Grip Lat Pulldown — 3 sets of 10/8/6 reps
D1. Incline Bench Bicep Curls — 2 sets of 8-10 reps
D2. Cable Tricep Overhead Extensions — 2 sets of 12-15 reps

Rest 1-3 minutes between sets. 

Sunday: Lower Body Focus

A1. Barbell Back Squat — 3 sets of 10 reps (increase intensity each set, ending with a RPE 9 third set)
B2. Dumbbell Romanian Deadlift — 3 sets of 8-10 reps
C1. Front Foot Elevated Split Squat — 3 sets of 8-10 reps
C2. Ab Wheel Rollout  — 3 sets of 6 reps
D1. Kettlebell Swings — 3 sets of 15 swings
D2. Suitcase Carry  — 2 sets of ~40 meters ea hand

Rest 1-3 minutes between sets.

This weekend-only training plan was the perfect fit for Joshua:

“I love the “snack” workouts during the week. Quick, short movements. Love it. Just enough to say you did something.”

— Joshua, coaching client

What about cardio? 

Feel free to plug in a shorter, more intense cardio session during the week (instead of a quick strength workout), and then add longer cardio on the weekend if you have time.

Another strategy I recommend: use weekdays to rack up steps.

Whether it’s walking the dog after work or an evening stroll with your spouse, we know walking is powerful for your health — and it usually takes less mental effort (aka activation energy) than a full workout.

Ready to Build Your Weekend Warrior Plan?

If you’ve been struggling to stay consistent during the week, you’re not failing — you might just need a plan that fits your life right now.

Starting with two solid workouts on the weekend can be the simple shift that makes everything else feel easier.

And if you want help building a plan around your schedule (instead of squeezing into someone else’s), that’s exactly what we do with our coaching clients. Learn more about coaching here.

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When I first started coaching, I thought barbell squats and deadlifts were non-negotiable. I plugged them in almost every client’s workout.

But in over 17 years of coaching I’ve learned that while they’re incredible lifts, they’re not required to get strong, build muscle, or drop body fat—especially if you’re over 40.

I didn’t remove them from the toolbox. Not every client responds poorly and some goals require training in these lifts.

But, more often than not, I choose different exercises. 

Before we go on, don’t mistake avoiding heavy barbell squats for not knowing how to squat correctly. 

The ability to do a deep bodyweight squat and hip hinge (the base pattern of a deadlift) is vital for a lifetime of pain-free movement. You should train and maintain those patterns throughout your lifetime. 

But you don’t need a barbell to teach your body these patterns—or to build strength once you’re confident.  

What Makes an Exercise the “Right Fit”?

So, what makes an exercise a good fit for you? There are a few rules to check off.

First: the movement should be pain-free under load.

This isn’t the marines. “No pain, no gain” doesn’t help you build more muscle or get stronger — it just leads to injury and months of missed workouts.

Second: you should feel the target muscles working during the exercise.

While research debates how much the “mind-muscle connection” matters, it’s still a useful filter: how an exercise feels can help you pick the right ones for your body.

For example, if you’re doing a squat variation, you want to feel it in your quads, hamstrings, and glutes. If you mostly feel it in your lower back — and you’re sure your technique is solid — it’s probably not the best fit for you.

In short, a good exercise fit:

• Is pain-free under load
• Lets you feel the right muscles working
• Builds strength without beating up your body

Use these rules as a guide, and you’ll find movements that not only fit better — they’ll get you stronger, faster, and help you train for a lifetime.

With that in mind, here are some of my go-to replacements for barbell squats and deadlifts.

If you’re dealing with nagging aches, limited mobility, or just want lower-stress training options, these 10 alternatives (plus a few bonus moves) are for you. You’ll still build serious strength — without beating up your joints

10 Alternatives to Squats and Deadlifts That Build Strength Without Pain

Alternatives to the Barbell Back Squat

Low Box Step-Ups – Don’t sleep on this deceptively simple move. A low box allows you to load up the weight. Plus, if your hips are tight a low box step up keeps you within a range of motion your hips can handle (and that protects your lower back). 

Dumbbell Box Squat  – This move will work the legs and help you work on a deeper squat by improving your hip mobility. If your hips are stiff, try spinning your toes out a little bit. 

Once the Dumbbell Box Squat feels good – and you’ve added some load – try Heel Elevated Goblet Squats.  

Wall Hack Squats – Training at home? This exercise will smoke your quads (the front of your legs) while sparing your back. 

Front-Foot Elevated Split Squats – Start here when split squatting. Elevating your front foot unloads the front leg and makes it easier to learn the movement. 

Then, makes things more spicy with everyone’s favorite move to hate, the Rear-Foot Elevated Split Squat. 

Sled Pushing or Pulling – Push or pull it, both are joint-friendly ways to build serious lower body strength. My go-to training tool for clients over 40. 

Alternatives to Barbell Deadlifts

Box Split RDLs – Even if traditional RDLs feel great, a Kickstand RDL (or b-stance RDL) is a great way to boost hip mobility, develop single leg stability, and pump up the glutes. 

Supported Single-Leg Deadlifts – Single-leg Deadlifts are a fantastic move for your hamstrings and glutes. But the limiting factor often isn’t your strength, it’s your balance. Use a support to shift the focus to challenging loads and quality movement. 

Tall Kneeling Good Morning – While a Barbell Good Morning might not feel great on your lower back, Tall Kneeling Good Mornings helps you train the lower back and hamstring with far less shear stress on the lower back. 

Hamstring Curls (Machine, Swiss Ball, TRX, Sliders) – Easy on the knees and functional, you should get a steady diet of hamstring curls in your workout. Oh, and this is where machines shine. 

Kettlebell Swings – If you haven’t learned how to do a proper swing, they could potentially tweak your back. But, that’s like saying picking up a laundry basket is bad for your back (it’s not). Do it the wrong way, and anything can happen.

With kettlebell swings, the key is the path of the kettlebell. If you’re letting the bell drift down towards the ground (and not swinging it under your butt), you’ll put more stress on your lower back. 

And don’t limit yourself to square stance, or bilateral, swings. Try mixing up your stances to unlock more mobility and athleticism. 

Training should build you up, not beat you down.

Heavy squats and deadlifts are powerful tools — but they’re not the only ones. If your goal is to get leaner, stronger, and stay active for decades to come, mastering better versions of squats and hinges for your body is what really matters. 

If you want expert help building a strength plan that fits your body — pain-free and customized to your goals — learn more about Born Fitness online coaching.

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The key isn’t avoiding it, it’s learning how to minimize and manage it so it doesn’t derail you.

The difference between successful and failed diets rarely comes down to willpower. It comes down to managing hunger when it comes up so you can stay consistent.

Feeling hungry and frustrated? Here are five ways to handle it without throwing in the towel.

Why Hunger Management Matters

Before we get into the strategies, here’s the deal. Your body doesn’t care that you’re trying to lean out for summer. When you’re in a calorie deficit, your body doesn’t think, ‘fat loss goal’. It thinks, ‘are we running out of food?’

In response to the perceived threat, it ramps up hunger (ghrelin) and lowers fullness signals (leptin) to get you eating again and feeling safe. That’s not you lacking willpower—that’s just biology doing its thing.

Your biology is literally fighting against you.

But with the right approach, you can work with your body instead of against it. Here’s how.

Strategy #1: Avoid Extreme Calorie Deficits to Control Hunger

A big mistake we see with new clients is creating too large of a calorie deficit. They think “if cutting 300 calories helps me lose weight, cutting 800 will help me lose weight faster!”

Quick fix? Maybe. Long-term success? Not a chance. 

When you slash calories too dramatically, your hunger signals go into overdrive. Your body thinks there’s a famine and responds accordingly. This makes the diet miserable and unsustainable.

Here’s what works better:

Aim for a weight loss rate of about 1 pound per week (0.5-1% of body weight). Research shows this pace allows for fat loss while minimizing muscle loss and hunger.

For most people, this means a moderate deficit of 300-500 calories per day below maintenance.

How do you know if your deficit is too aggressive? Warning signs include:

• Constant thoughts about food
• Difficulty sleeping
• Extreme hunger between meals
• Significant drops in workout performance
• Irritability or mood swings

If you’re experiencing several of these, consider easing back on your deficit. A slower, more sustainable approach is better than rapid weight loss followed by rapid weight regain.

Strategy#2: Protein for Hunger Management

If there’s one nutritional strategy that gives you the most bang for your buck during a fat loss phase, it’s increasing your protein intake.

Protein is more satiating per calorie than carbs or fats. It requires more energy to digest and helps preserve lean muscle, which is crucial for maintaining your metabolic rate during a deficit.

Here’s what works:

Aim for 0.7-1g of protein per pound of body weight daily. For a 170-pound person, that’s about 120-170g of protein.

This might seem like a lot, but here’s how to make it practical:

• Include a protein source with every meal and snack
• Front-load your day with protein (aim for 30-40g at breakfast)
• Keep ready-to-eat protein sources handy (Greek yogurt, protein bars, cottage cheese)
• If you’re struggling to hit your target, a quality protein powder can help bridge the gap

Strategy #3: Fiber: The Best Way To Stay Full While Dieting

Volume eating is a game-changer during a fat loss phase. Fiber-rich foods allow you to eat a larger volume of food without overshooting your calories.

Fiber slows digestion, stabilizes blood sugar, and keeps you feeling full longer. But many people fall short of the recommended 25-35g per day.

Easy ways to increase fiber:

• Start meals with a large vegetable salad or broth-based vegetable soup
• Choose whole fruits instead of juices
• Opt for whole grains over refined versions
• Fill at least half of your plate with veggies (leafy greens, broccoli, zucchini)
• Keep high-fiber snacks handy (berries, air-popped popcorn, raw veggies)

Strategy #4: Why Sleep is Crucial for Managing Hunger

If you’re shorting yourself on sleep, you’re making hunger management much harder than it needs to be.

Research shows that even one night of poor sleep can:

• Increase hunger hormone (ghrelin) levels by up to 15%
• Decrease satiety hormone (leptin) levels
• Intensify cravings, especially for sweet and salty foods
• Impair decision-making around food choices

This isn’t just anecdotal. A 2010 study found that sleep-deprived people eat an average of 300 more calories per day than well-rested people. That’s enough to completely negate your calorie deficit.

Sleep hygiene practices that help:

• Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep
• Establish a consistent sleep schedule
• Create a sleep-friendly environment (cool, dark, quiet)
• Limit screen time before bed
• Avoid caffeine after 2pm

If you’ve had a poor night’s sleep, be extra vigilant about your food choices the next day. Have your meals planned in advance and stick to your routine as much as possible.

Strategy #5: Smart Cardio for Fat Loss Without Increased Hunger

Cardio can be a valuable tool for fat loss, but more isn’t always better. Excessive cardio can actually increase hunger and make your diet harder to sustain.

This happens for a few reasons:

• High-intensity cardio depletes glycogen stores, which can trigger hunger
• Too much cardio can increase cortisol, affecting hunger hormones
• Your body may compensate for hard cardio sessions by making you hungrier

The smart approach to cardio:

Walking is the unsung hero of fat loss. It’s low impact, low stress, and doesn’t dramatically increase hunger. Aim for 8,000-10,000 steps per day as your baseline.

If you enjoy more intense cardio, keep sessions focused and relatively brief (20-30 minutes). Balance high-intensity sessions with recovery days focused on walking.

Many of our most successful clients primarily use weight training (2-4 sessions weekly) with daily walking and minimal traditional cardio.

Bonus Strategy: Environmental Control

Your environment plays a huge role in managing hunger. Simple changes include:

• Keep trigger foods out of sight (or out of the house)
• Pre-portion snacks rather than eating from the package
• Use smaller plates and bowls
• Keep healthy, satisfying options easily accessible
• Plan and prep meals in advance to avoid last-minute decisions when hungry

The Bottom Line

Fat loss doesn’t have to be miserable. While some hunger may come up, it shouldn’t dominate your day or make you feel out of control around food.

By implementing these strategies, you can create a sustainable approach that works with your biology instead of against it. This means better results that actually last.

And if that’s something you want help with — building a plan that works for you, your goals, and your real life — that’s exactly what we do at Born Fitness.

Our online coaching is built to help you lose fat (without losing your mind) by giving you personalized guidance, accountability, and support every step of the way.

If that sounds like the kind of help you’ve been missing, you can apply here to see if we’re a good fit.

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Three workouts per week.
A moderate calorie deficit. 
No complicated macros—just protein and total calories. 

Anthony was skeptical. His past weight-loss attempts followed the same frustrating pattern that probably looks familiar if you’re a man looking for fat loss over 50 :

1. Drastically cut calories

2. See quick results

3. Hit a plateau and stall

4. Get frustrated and give up

5. Regain the weight (plus more)

6. Try another extreme diet

This is the cycle that traps so many people. It’s not that crash dieting doesn’t work—it does, but only for a short period of time. Eventually, the extreme restriction leads to burnout, stalled progress, and ultimately, weight regain.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many men over 50 get stuck in this cycle. The problem isn’t that they’re not trying—it’s that the approach itself is flawed.

Why Crash Dieting Fails (Especially Over 50)

Extreme calorie cuts can deliver short-term results, but they come at a cost:

• Muscle loss – The more muscle you lose, the slower your metabolism becomes.

• Increased hunger – Your body fights back, making it harder to stick to the plan.

• Low energy and poor recovery – You feel drained, making workouts (and daily life) miserable.

• Metabolic slowdown – Over time, your body adapts, making it even harder to lose weight.

That’s why Anthony needed a new strategy—one built for sustainability.

How Anthony Finally Lost Weight (And Kept It Off)

Instead of another crash diet, Anthony followed a sustainable fat-loss strategy designed for long-term success.

1. Strength Training: 3 Full-Body Workouts Per Week

Forget the idea that you need to train 5 or 6 days a week to see results. The real question is: Is your plan a good fit for you?

I’ve seen plenty of people burn out trying to train every day. Meanwhile, others achieve incredible transformations with just 3-4 workouts per week. It’s not about more—it’s about consistency and intensity.

The goal isn’t just to show up at the gym—it’s to crush your workouts without draining the rest of your day. You need the energy to push hard, recover well, and come back ready to do it again.

A solid program balances three key factors:
Consistency – If you don’t believe you can stick with it for a year, it’s probably not the right plan.
Intensity – Not every session is a PR, but a mix of steady workouts (5-6/10 intensity) and strong efforts (9-10/10) gets results.
Confidence – You should feel in control of your training, not overwhelmed by it.

2. A Moderate Calorie Deficit (No Starving)

The foundation of fat loss is burning more calories than you consume—but that doesn’t mean extreme restriction.

Anthony’s approach focused on:

• A realistic calorie deficit – 250-500 calories per day, not drastic cuts.

• More movement – Prioritizing daily steps instead of endless cardio.

• Eating enough to fuel workouts – So he could build muscle, not lose it.

The result? Avoiding burnout from excessive dieting or training. A moderate deficit allows progress without extreme hunger or exhaustion.

3. Protein + Total Calories (Without Overcomplicating Macros)

You don’t need to meticulously track every macro for fat loss after 50. In fact, obsessing over hitting exact numbers—like debating whether you need 7 almonds or 14—can lead to unnecessary stress (and even disordered eating).

Instead, focus on two simple targets:

Protein – Prioritize lean protein sources to support muscle and recovery.
Total Calories – Stay within your range without micromanaging every gram of fat or carbs.

Does this mean tracking macros is bad? Not at all. It can be useful, but for most people—especially beginners—a simplified approach leads to better long-term success.

Bonus: Don’t Forget Fiber

Food quality still matters. Could you lose weight eating junk food? Technically, yes. But you won’t feel great doing it.

That’s why we focus on whole foods and fiber intake to improve digestion, satiety, and overall health.

Daily Fiber Goals:

• 25 grams per day for women

• 35 grams per day for men
  

The Results: A Year of Real, Sustainable Fat Loss

After 12 months, Anthony didn’t just lose weight—he got stronger, leaner, and broke free from the yo-yo dieting cycle.

More importantly, he now has the tools to keep the weight off permanently—without starving himself or spending hours in the gym.

What You Can Learn From Anthony’s Transformation

Why did it work?

Because consistency beats complexity.

The secret isn’t extreme diets or brutal workouts—it’s building habits that stick.

When you stop rushing the process, the results take care of themselves.

Ready to break the cycle and build a plan that actually works? Get expert coaching, a customized strategy, and the support you need to make real progress—without extreme diets or exhausting workouts.

Apply for coaching today and take the first step toward lasting results.

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Sure, some trends are questionable. But every now and then, a simple, science-backed idea gains traction—one that can help you train pain-free and transform your body.

Like walking backward.

And not just walking backward on a treadmill, but walking backward up a hill.

As a personal trainer for over 15 years, I’ve introduced my clients to some unconventional exercises. But this? This one is worth stopping traffic for. 

Here are four surprising benefits of backward hill walking—and why you should try it.

1. Backward Walking Benefits: A Science-Backed Game-Changer for Your Body

Walking backward might seem like a gimmick—until you look at the research. Studies show it activates muscles differently than forward walking, improves coordination, and even burns more calories.

The key difference? 

When you walk forward, your body naturally absorbs impact with each step, using a controlled eccentric (lowering) phase to decelerate movement. But when you walk backward, that eccentric load is reduced, meaning less wear and tear on your joints—especially your knees.

At the same time, walking in reverse forces your quads, glutes, and stabilizing muscles to work harder, especially on an incline. That’s why physical therapists use backward walking for knee rehab, and why athletes use it to strengthen their lower bodies without overloading their joints.

Put simply: it’s a smart way to build strength, improve movement quality, and protect your knees—all at once.

2. The Best Way to Load Backward Walking: Add a Hill

A local couple that I’ve trained for years here in Kansas City live in a neighborhood called the West Plaza. It’s a beautiful, tree-lined part of town. And very hilly. Perfect for asking them to walk backward up them. 

As you drive by you might think “huh, that’s unusual.”

Or, “what is the guy doing to those poor people.”

But as you learned above, backward walking is a smart lower body training choice. And if you know how to make exercises harder, any movement — including bodyweight exercises like backward walking — can help you increase strength and build new muscle.

Here’s why they work: The principles of progressive overload apply to backward walking just like any exercise. You need to find ways to create more muscular tension. 

You could drag a sled but if you’re training at home – or in a limited gym – the easiest way to increase tension is to find a hill. 

Think of this like pushing a sled. With each step you must “push” yourself up the hill, demanding more from your lower body muscles. Plus, much like a sled, backward hill walking (or backward treadmill walking) is all concentric and isometric work.

Want to take it to the next level? Try wearing a weight vest. 

3. Backward Walking Improves Balance & Stability (And Why It Matters As You Age)

As you age, training for balance and stability becomes essential for preventing falls. 

In fact, studies show that backward walking can be an effective tool for improving these skills—mainly because you can’t see where you’re going.

When we walk forward we rely heavily on visual input to assist in body awareness. Remove those visual cues, and your body is forced to rely more on proprioception — your ability to sense where your body is in space. 

That’s yet another reason I have my clients mentioned above incorporate backward hill walks into their routine. They’re both in their 60s and improving stability becomes increasingly important as we get older.

But backward walking isn’t just for the 60+ crowd. It’s also beneficial for anyone recovering from a lower-body injury. By strengthening stabilizing muscles in the ankles, knees, and hips while reducing joint stress, it can be a smart rehab choice. 

4. Burn More Calories in Less Time (The Fat Loss Benefit)

Most people think of running or high-intensity cardio when they want to burn more calories. But what if you could increase your calorie burn without pounding your joints?

That’s where backward walking—especially uphill—comes in.

Research shows that walking backward can burn nearly double the calories of walking forward at a brisk pace. The increased demand on your quads, glutes, and stabilizing muscles forces your body to work harder, even at lower speeds.

That means you get a low-impact way to ramp up calorie burn without the wear and tear on your knees. That’s why I often program it into my clients’ workouts—whether as a finisher, part of a circuit, or even a warm-up to activate key muscles before strength training. (And don’t worry, I’ll share those examples below.)

If you’re looking for a joint-friendly way to boost fat loss and get more out of your cardio, backward walking could be your secret weapon.

How to Add Backward Walking to Your Workouts

You don’t need a complete overhaul of your routine to get the benefits of backward walking—just a few strategic tweaks. Here are four ways to start using it in your workouts today.

Option 1: Start Simple (Beginner-Friendly)

New to backward walking? Start with 5-10 minutes on a flat surface, whether it’s a treadmill, track, or sidewalk. Focus on controlled steps, keeping your ribcage and pelvis stacked, and feel the difference in your quads.

Option 2: Progress to Hills (Leg Strength & Joint-Friendly Conditioning)

Once you’re comfortable, take it to the next level by walking backward up a hill for 30-60 seconds at a time. Rest as needed, then repeat for 5-10 rounds. This is a great way to challenge your legs without heavy weights.

Option 3: Interval Training for Fat Loss (Higher Intensity)

If fat loss and cardio efficiency are your focus, try a backward sprint for short bursts:

• Walk backward as fast as possible for 15-20 seconds.
• Rest for 60-90 seconds.
• Repeat for 5-10 rounds.

This approach cranks up the calorie demand without pounding your joints like traditional sprints.

Option 4: Integrate It Into Your Workouts (Strength & Conditioning)

Because many of my clients train at home with limited equipment, I often use backward walking to pre-fatigue their legs before strength training. This helps them get more out of movements like goblet squats without needing an endless rack of dumbbells.

Here’s how you can use backward hill walking as part of a structured workout:

Workout “Buy-In” & “Cash-Out”

• Buy-In: Start your workout with a long backward hill walk.
• Workout: Strength or circuit training.
• Cash-Out: Finish with another long backward hill walk.

Total Rep Conditioning Finisher 

• Long backward hill walk
• 50 pushups
• 50 squats

Backward Walking Intervals 

• Short, fast backward hill walk at an aggressive pace (~15-20 seconds)
• Rest (60-90 seconds)
• Repeat 5-10 times

Give It a Try—Your Legs (and Knees) Will Thank You

Backward walking might not be the first thing you think of when it comes to leg day, but the benefits speak for themselves: stronger legs, better balance, more calorie burn, and healthier knees.

The best part? It’s accessible and easy to start. Try just 2-3 minutes of backward walking this week—on a treadmill, sidewalk, or hill—and notice the difference.

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